My gay boyfriend
If the thought has ever crossed your mind, I think my boyfriend is gay this post is for you.
This is a subject that I possess wanted to write about for a very prolonged time. Why? Because I once dated a guy who was everything I had ever wanted, until I found something that forever changed the foundation that our relationship was built on.
I was once that girl, who didnt realize what to do or where to turn. A girl that found herself in the middle of the night Googling, Is he gay? Is my boyfriend gay? I verb my boyfriend is gay while *he* was sound asleep next to me as seemingly NOT gay as ever. I had never had a connection with anyone enjoy this before. It couldnt be. But then again, why did I spot what I found on his phone?
Not only did I not find anything from my Google searches, but I actually found a ton of junk out there that personally, I think is very disrespectful to the gay community. If he hangs out with guys, If he spends longer doing his hair than you do, If he dances fancy (I dont know what that even means), If he
Does Your Gay Boyfriend Discount You?
This month’s blog send features my answer to a question I received for my “Ask Adam” relationship advice column at
Dear Adam,
My boyfriend surfs the web while we watch TV together, never comes up with a plan for the weekend, and spends way too much time thinking about work. Otherwise he’s a good guy and I’m lucky to have him. But I’m afraid if I bring these issues up I’ll push him away or hurt him. How can I acquire him to pay me more attention?
Signed,
Annoyed in Akron
Dear Annoyed in Akron,
Here are the six most dangerous words to explain a LGBTQ relationship:
“We don’t talk about our relationship”.
Many couples can spend years—even decades talking about a wide range of topics like politics, entertainment, or their friends — but can’t talk about their relationship.
These are the distressed couples I often see in my couples counseling practice. The strategy of “we don’t communicate about it” eventually leads to big relationship trouble.
Men rarely receive any training, modeling, or support for talking about their relationships. You can
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